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The Sliding Scale Of Anxiety.

The Sliding Scale of Anxiety.

Anxiety affects us all in varying degrees from mild forms to severe attacks and it is relentless as it can come on at any time no matter where you are or what you are doing. This can lead to Panic Attacks and IBS (Irritable bowel syndrome) Most often this can just start on waking up and lying in bed, the feeling of dread can be overwhelming to say the least.

But What Is My Anxiety.

A few things can cause anxiety. but anxiety is and always will be just the symptom and not the cause. Most people deal with the symptom and not the cause and so they never really get better. Start to notice the cause of anxiety.
Anxiety is really no more than you thinking of a future event that you have no idea how it will turn out and this leads your mind to create negative scenarios that only make you feel anxious.
Let’s face it, you can have a panic attack lying in bed, Why? because your mind is overactive with negative imagination and the WRONG information. This all leads to anxiety.

What To Do?

It’s hard to switch off and no one said you should, but rather use the power your fertile imagination gives you to help you get well and recognise that you can start to deal with the cause and not the symptom. It can feel, to begin with, that you start to change because you have been hardwired from birth to think and feel anxious. Most people’s anxiety is 50% of somebody else’s and so in a split second, you can halve your anxiety. Now to get rid of another 25% of your anxiety is too realise that you are the experiencer of the anxiety and NOT the anxiety itself. So now you are down to 25%.
Halve this again to 12.5% by noticing that you are responding in a set way or pattern of behaviour and if you change, this you will reduce the feelings that you once associated with anxiety. It is your choice how you respond with your thinking. You are in control.
Now that you are down to 12.5% – how easy is this to deal with on your own now?

Master Your Thoughts.

Mastering the mind is one of the hardest things you can do, but you can treat it the same way as you would with keeping yourself clean. Do things that help clean your mind and your thoughts, just as you wash, you get dirty again and then you have to bathe again, all your life this happens. Your mind and thoughts are no different. Run a mental antivirus programme in your head by not letting your negative thoughts dictate how you should feel, in other words, don’t let people steal your happiness. Don’t download their problems.

What To Do Now.

Change by doing subtle things, walking, playing music, singing, feel lighter, stop gossiping, swearing, moaning, and judging others.
Do what your heart feels it wants to do, you don’t have to pack in your job, but to add balance in your life, earning money can be as enjoyable as spending it… Notice and write down, if your life is in balance. Look at the tyres on a car, for the car to run smoothly on the road all the tyres are all inflated to the right pressure. We have all had one flat tyre and the car drives uneven even though the other 3 are at the right pressure, In other words, negative thinking will unbalance your whole day and life if you’re not careful.

8 Top Tips From Nexus Hypnotherapy.

#1 Meditate.
#2 Beat a drum.
#3 Sing.
#4 Dance.
#5 Only speak kindly.
#6 Stop judging.
#7 Learn to love again.

Can Nexus Hypnotherapy Help Me?

At Nexus Hypnotherapy, The Nexus Team will do his utmost to help you. As we are all different if some trauma is so deep that you might need a different approach. Nexus deals in many forms of therapy that can help you and you have to decide which form you wish to take or receive. Just as in life, we get stubborn stains and your emotions can be stubborn too. But The Nexus Team has a wealth of knowledge and contacts that he can engage to help you. All that said, if you never want to get rid of our negativity – then it’s yours to keep for as long as you want it.

Trouble Shooting.

If you have done these and tried your very best to stop your anxiety and it’s not working then feel free to contact me to get professional help from Nexus Hypnotherapy. The Nexus Team has been helping people since 2004 with Depression, Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Addictions, Confidence Building, whether adults, TV personalities, CEO’s and even children. No one is immune from the negative feelings that life deals us all.
But help is here if you are ready to receive it. contact me at Nexus Hypnotherapy or email me at info@nexushypnotherapy.co.uk

We also use Reiki and Access Bar as well as many other methods, including hypnotherapy. Available in Walsall West Midlands. If you do want to know more, then just contact me.

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Anxiety Is Driving Kids Mad

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Anxiety Is Driving Kids Mad!

Back To School.

Children have been back at school a few weeks since writing this blog however, this has been happening all across the country and indeed all over the world, kids going back to school after their holidays or long break. Their anxiety kicks in and ruins the last two weeks of their break. Plus the tormented sleepless night before they go to school. This could be due to not liking school, lack of friends, new school, new teacher, old and new bullies, and the list goes on. Not to mention a disruptive home life with the added bonus of trying to achieve good grades.

Anxious Kids…

Since the kids have gone back to school, Anxiety Hypnosis has had a big increase in the amount of young kids needing treatment for anxiety, panic attacks, fears, and dealing with the threat of bulling.

Kids are terrified of the prospect of having to deal with all of this and more because of the system and their lack of knowing how to help themselves. It is really setting them up for a lifetime of stress, anxiety, then leading to depression.

Anxiety Hypnosis.

The Nexus Team can help your child to feel better about themselves. Showing them the skills so that they know that fear, panic, and anxiety can leave them. So we can get your child to feel better about their ability to be courageous, motivated, confident, and above all be happy. This will free up their minds of stress so that they can concentrate better on getting good grades so they can hopefully get the job that they really want.

Picture This…

Which child would thrive better…

Twin Brothers on LawnOne that has lead a life of stress, fear, guilt, and anxiety, who grows up in a low paid income bracket and is a smoker, heavy drinker, also possibly on anti depressants.

Or a child who learned how to de-stress, and grows into a person who is self motivated, confident and has the career that they chose, who has a healthy life style and thriving family who enjoy great holidays.

Important.

This is now down to you! School council and other government bodies who are trying their best to help kids can be swamped with numbers of kids they have to see. However there is a solution for you because The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis can offer your kids the real treatment that they truly deserve. Whether in person or via skype.

Contact Information.

Please feel free to contact The Nexus Team on his contact me page on Anxiety Hypnosis.

Previous blogs on children’s issues with Anxiety.

We also cover a range of other problems of anxiety which we offer that you can see here.

If you need help further with any anxiety problems then you can get an instant free download to 7 solutions to axe anxiety. 

You can also see how Jikiden Reiki is for calming a busy mind down.

Contact Numbers-Emails Address.

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

In the UK. T: 01922 285 118

hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping You Towards success.

The Nexus Team.

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Therapy Is Fun!

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Therapy Is Fun!
By The Nexus Team
Anxiety Hypnosis

Therapy Is Fun! …Or Is It?…

Whether you come from Walsall, Birmingham, or any other part of the country, when you have a problem such as:

  • Anxiety.
  • Depression,
  • Guilt,
  • Fear.
  • OCD.
  • Hurt.
  • Anger.
  • Trauma.
  • Phobic.

And so on… you can look very miserable because you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders.

You hold onto these problems more and more as they internally cripple you, because you’re too scared to do anything about it. Probably because you have thought in your head that any therapy will open up that can of worms you hold onto. Or you don’t want some weird stranger knowing your private business. …So what’s the answer?

Therapy is Fun The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis Walsall

Therapy Is Fun…

Therapy is fun because any great therapist will make it fun. How can you possibly get over your problem if you take yourself too seriously. Humour is the antidote medicine to help cure you. There is a time to be serious, but always have an injection of a fun element in the healing process taking place.

A Dog Bites You!

So you get bitten by an angry dog and you are traumatised by the event, so you develop a phobia or fear of dogs. Eventually, you become fearful of every dog. So what’s the cure?
You cannot get over the fear of the same energy that created the problem. Picture this, you come across a basket of puppies and they are looking up at you. You notice this, but you don’t have the same negative feelings as before. And so you have tempted to stroke the little puppy and hold one of them. Soon you hold him next to your face.

You’re Cured.

Suddenly you notice that you are no longer fearful of dogs, this is a light bulb moment and you realise how ridiculous you have been over the years and you burst out laughing. This action sets up a new type of positive feeling for your future.

Anxiety Hypnosis Is About Having Fun.

The Nexus Team treats his clients with a fun element to help break down the negativity and so aid the process of a fast result with you being free of your problem. Laughter is your cure, this high energetic state makes the therapy work at its best for you.

Helpful Contacts & Links For You.

Getting over your phobia is Quick, Easy and Fun. This is about dental phobia and FUN is always the KEY to getting over your phobic fear: Read on Anxiety Hypnosis blogs to know more. Dentist phobia treatment in Birmingham with anxiety hypnosis.

You can contact The Nexus Team via this link to The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis Contact Me Page.

See our previous clients here on Google reviews and our website reviews

Get The Nexus Team’s free help with our 7 solutions to axe anxiety with instant download

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

In the UK. T: 01922 285 118

hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping You Towards success.

The Nexus Team.

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The Level Of Consciousness Beating Your Problems

Nexus Hypnotherapy Explains The Level Of Consciousness.

By The Nexus Team.

The Level Of Consciousness

The level of consciousness is calibrated at 1 to 1000, although it can go higher logarithmically. Although for human beings it is set from 1 to 1000.

What Does This Mean For You…

Depending on where you are in your mental state of consciousness, it is calibrated to a specific number on this chart. Consequently, you become the experiencer of this particular vibration and this number is set on the chart. For instance, anger is set a 150, so if you are in an angry state of mind, this means you are a 150 on the chart of consciousness. So you will have the experience of anger. So there are many numbers that represent how you will feel.

Are You Below 200?

When we have negative problems such as Anger, Fear, Guilt, Shame which are set at 150 or below they affect your mental state of consciousness. These are below 200 where all the problems are.

What others are below 200.

Anxiety Hypnosis The Nexus Team Birmingham Walsall

  • 200 Neutrality.
  • 175 Pride.
  • 150 Anger.
  • 125 Desire.
  • 100 Fear.
  • 75 Grief.
  • 50 Apathy.
  • 30 Guilt.
  • 20 Shame.

This means that you are negatively contracted or constricted by your thoughts that are pre-programmed via the level of consciousness.

The Nexus Team At Anxiety Hypnosis.

What can The Nexus Team do with hypnosis and hypnotherapy?. With the power of trance hypnosis, he can get you to a positive state of over 200 and in many cases, this can be achieved in one session. So what happens to you when you’re over 200.

Over 200 Is life Changing.

These are some of the positive effects of 200 and above on the level of consciousness.

  • 700-1000 Enlightenment.
  • 600 Peace.
  • 540 Joy.
  • 500 Love.
  • 400 Reason.
  • 350 Acceptance.
  • 310 Willingness.
  • 200 Courage.

So this is what you experience when you’re above 200. Let’s face it, a purring cat or a dog with a wagging tail will show you that they are on a 550 plus.

So What Are You?

You are the experiencer of the experience and if you wish to feel better about yourself, then you need help with my style of Anxiety Hypnosis and Reiki Healing to help get you well into the positive zone of success and confidence.

The Nexus Team Session.

Of course in my sessions I go much deeper into this and how it works. Also on how I can raise your positive energy state of consciousness. So remember if you are depressed, stressed or anxious, then this is not you but rather the feeling you’re experiencing.

Helpful Contacts & Links For You.

You can view a page here on Jikiden Reiki to see how Reiki would offer you the help you need.

My website email contact form is available here on the anxiety hypnosis contact me.

The Nexus Team’s other blogs that include depressed young men killing themselves 

Helping the people of Walsall and Birmingham and beyond, here are a few of the treatments we deal with at Anxiety Hypnosis and Reiki Healing in Walsall.

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

Nexus Hypnotherapy

Helping You Towards success.

The Nexus Team.

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Sleeping Rough In Walsall…

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Sleeping Rough in Any Place.

Sleeping rough in any place can be a nightmare, but this post from Anxiety Hypnosis is more about how bad your sleep is? So the next morning you feel rough because of the lack of sleep. No one really knows why we have to sleep as the body is still functioning while we are sleeping. However without sleep, we know the bad side effects it has on our mind and body.

Sleep Is Selfish…

Why is sleep selfish? When the sleepy feeling comes on and you go really tired, sleep will happen, no matter what you are doing. This can happen when you’re driving, so this is why sleep is selfish as it doesn’t care what you are up to or how important it is.
The opposite of this is when you want to sleep, the selfish part of you that allows sleep to happen doesn’t seem to work and when it is time for you to sleep, …you can’t!

Getting A Good Nights Sleep.

Getting your good nights sleep can only happen to you when you wake up. This is the only time that you can evaluate how well your sleep has been throughout the night. But the many people of Walsall and Birmingham are having to cope with lack of quality sleep. …Why is this?

What’s Stopping Us From Sleeping Well.

  • Worrying.
  • Interviews.
  • Exams.
  • Anxiety.
  • Alcohol.
  • Caffeine.
  • Medication.
  • Active mind.
  • Over thinking.
  • Bad mattress.
  • Over weight.
  • Poor diet.
  • Mineral deficiency.
  • Bad habits.
  • Noises.
  • Environment.
  • Children.
  • Pain.
  • Age.
  • Travelling.

And so it continues…

What Is The Solution?

Anxiety Hypnosis The Nexus Team SleepYou can have scans or be wired up to electrodes to be tested why you aren’t getting the quality of sleep that you deserve. Being monitored or having the many sleep apps and gadgets to survey you still may not give you the right answer. That magic pill that will knock you out and get you feeling normal again. So how can Anxiety Hypnosis help you?

The Nexus Team At Anxiety Hypnosis.

The Nexus Team has helped many clients over the past years with sleeping issues. One of his practices is to create a R.E.M. Rapid Eye Movement. We go into a natural R.E.M. Sleep each night, but if we don’t achieve this we don’t get the quality of sleep the we need to function normally.

Hypnosis Or Hypnotherapy.

Hypnosis or Hypnotherapy is one way to reactive the sleeping pattern that you deserve, with the combination of an awakening R.E.M. induced sleep. At Anxiety Hypnosis in Walsall we use E.M.D.R. Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing. In my practice we get you to do the easy therapy that can really help with you being able to get to sleep. For this particular therapy you have to see me to go through this process. But it has many benefits that can help you in other ways and not just with sleep. So if you feel that you would like to try this therapy, then please call me on: 01922302065.

The Nexus Team’s Reiki Helps You Sleep.

My style of traditional Japanese Jikiden Reiki is most effective in calming your busy mind down. There are many benefits to help you with this type of Reiki to help you reintroduce a normal sleeping pattern. If this feels the type of therapy that you would like to experience, a hands on treatment that you would like to experience in Walsall or Pelsall, then please feel free to contact The Nexus Team or Christine on: 01922302065.

Helpful Contacts & Links.

You can open a page here on Jikiden Reiki to see how Reiki can help you.

My website email contact form is right here on Nexus Hypnotherapy contact me.

The Nexus Team’s other blogs that include sleep: Tiredness can seriously damage your health. or Is insomnia sending you MAD?

See what else we do that can bring about the help that you deserve on Anxiety Hypnosis – If We Cover Your Specific Problem.

As a free gift for reading Sleeping Rough In Walsall… Get The Nexus Team’s instant free download to get 7 Solutions To Axe Anxiety.

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

info@nexushypnoherapy.co.uk

Helping You Towards Success.

The Nexus Team.

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The Nexus Team Can Stop Your Fears With 8 Top Tips

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The Nexus Team Can Stop Your Fears With 8 Top Tips!

 

What Do You Fear Most In Your Life?

FEAR OF SPIDERS

FEAR OF SPIDERS

People from all walks of life have some fear of one sort or another and these can range from fears of the:

  • Dentist.
  • Public Speaking.
  • Spiders.
  • Wasps.
  • Dogs.
  • Open Spaces.
  • Closed Spaces.
  • Fear Of Commitment.
  • Fear Of Death.
  • Fear Of Germs.
  • Abandonment.
  • Water (Drowning).
  • Snakes.
  • Fear OF The Weather.
  • Flying.
  • Big Dippers.
  • Fear Of Clowns.
  • Fear Of Structures.
  • Birds/Feathers.
  • Hospitals/Doctors.
  • Operations.
  • Needles.
  • Fear Of Blood.
  • Lifts/Escalators.
  • The Dark.
  • Aliens.
  • Leaving Home.

The list could go on and on, but you get the idea of fear. Most of these fears are irrational because they are like being afraid of a Volcano. But if you’re never going near one, then this fear is totally irrational and you shouldn’t give it mind space.

Acceptable Fears.

Acceptable fears are those that are more natural fears. They would be:

  • Fear Of Falling.
  • Fear Of Loud Bangs.

Other than these two, this is about as much fear as you can have. Although you may have another natural fear which has been programmed from childhood, this would be the woods/forest. This is because fairy tales evoke fear of leaving home and ending up in the dark woods or the forest.

Fear Isn’t Real.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis helps the many people of Walsall to get rid of their fears and learn to be confident. Fear isn’t real because when you were young you feared the dark, but now you’re grown up, the fear of the dark has gone and so this proves that this fear wasn’t real. Although fears are like this.

Fear vs Non Fear.

If fear was true then everyone would experience the same fear, this would have everyone fearing DOGS, but this isn’t the case. If you want to start acting fearless, then start to copy people you know who don’t have the same fear you do. See how they act and behave, for example around dogs, how they get excited by seeing a dog. You copy them and your fears can go away – just like the fear of the dark now that you’re grown up.

The Nexus Team Gets You Confident.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis getting the people of Walsall more confident, as confidence is the key to stopping you feeling the fear. Confidence is what you need to overcome any old fears you have been hanging onto. Stop being a victim of the old fears that aren’t yours. The ones where you are probably just copying a parent who was fearful of a spider and you just copied them as your mind thought that this was the right thing to do – but rationally you know it isn’t.

Walsall & Beyond.

Whether in Walsall, Birmingham or the rest of the UK, The Nexus Team helps people overcome their:

  • Fears.
  • Phobias.
  • Worries.
  • Concerns.
  • Uncertainties.
  • Lack Of Self Esteem.

Helping them to have the antidote of:

  • Being Confident.
  • Being Motivated.
  • Standing Up For Themselves.
  • Being Fearless.
  • Having Courage.
  • Aiming For Success.
  • Believing In Their Abilities.

8 Top Tips To Help With Your Fears.

Remember that fear isn’t real and here are my top tips to help:

  • Walk Confidently.
  • Talk A Little Louder. (Up the Volume).
  • Think Of Only Success.
  • Think Of What Could Go Right In Your Life.
  • Positive Self Talk.
  • Don’t Believe In The Fear.
  • Only Respond Positively.

Anxiety Hypnosis Walsall With The Nexus Team Information Centre.

If you would like a Free Complimentary Consultation, then please feel free to call me today.

Read my other blogs on: Fears and Phobias.

Read some of our reviews: In local directory in The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis or check out our web page on what people had to say.

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Remember that fear can make your world appear smaller as you shrink away – Being fearless makes your world bigger.

Helping you towards success.

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

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10 Tools. Is Social Anxiety affecting You?

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Is Social Anxiety affecting you and particularly the people of Walsall.
10 Tools Helping You Deal With Social Anxiety…

What Is Social Anxiety?

Social anxiety is a collection of emotions that lead to anxiety when meeting people in a social environment. This can range from a mild uneasiness to a full blown panic attack. This fear of meeting people can come on at anytime during your life and for no apparent reason apart from not dealing with the stresses you have put yourself under. So this becomes the straw that broke the camels back, so to speak.

Social Anxiety Symptoms.

Social Anxiety from The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis & Reiki Healing Walsall
Social anxiety symptoms can include:

Trembling.
Palpitations.
Rapid heart beat.
Fear of ridicule.
Rapid breathing rate.
Feeling sick.
Bad cramps in your stomach.
Excess sweating.
Agitation.
Feeling uncomfortable in your own skin.
Feeling of being overwhelmed.
Not being able to think straight.
Loosing your concentration.
Temporary memory loss.
Not knowing how to talk to others.
Uncomfortable peer pressure.
Feeling that others are judging you.
Feeling that others are better than you.
Loss of confidence.
Not wanting to stand out.
Not drawing any attention to yourself.
Taking avoidance measures.
Fainting. low blood pressure

The good news is that no one ever died of social anxiety.

What Can You Do To Stop Social Anxiety.

Going out is not necessarily the first answer to deal with your social anxiety because you’re trying to do something that you cannot do, this can push you back further.
Seeing a therapist can help because they know how to uncover the root cause of your problem also they can reframe your negativity into a positive.
Getting support from family and friends, also telling people who you meet as they will be more sympathetic than you realise and may even relay stories of how they overcame their social anxiety.
You can always laugh at your problem as laughter is one of the biggest and most powerful cures you can have. You can also learn to place your attention onto something else, so as not to focus on the social anxiety.

Social Media In Walsall.

You could say social media has a negative role to play as friends become virtual friends and so we become dissociated from them. Just as you might view a war scene on the news, it never really affect you and 2 mins later you forget about it, even thought the conflict is very real. This is a dissociation towards the real world as the comfort of home is our security blanket and leaving our home is taking away the security, then you are exposed and vulnerable. So the only way the mind and body can get you to feel safe again it to give you all these negative emotions, so that you’ll return back home to your security blanket.

My Top Tools To Help Social Anxiety.

# 1 Remember to start meeting real people and not virtual ones. i.e. social media or games.
# 2 Get coached on how to meet and greet people.
# 3 Face and feel the fear and do it anyway.
# 4 Realise that you always survived a social anxious moment no matter how bad it was.
# 5 Tell people that you have social anxiety and they will understand you better and you too will feel relieved.
# 6 Don’t let social anxiety define who you really are.
# 7 Start to do things that you have avoided in the past and become braver.
# 8 Start to build on your confidence and use your confidence.
# 9 Check that any medication you are taking is not making you feel social anxiety or paranoia .
#10 Every day practice smiling at new people in the street and say hello you’ll get a smile back and a nice greeting.

The Nexus Team

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis has helped people overcome their social anxiety, stress, worries, and fear. But you also need to become fearless, brave, confident, and then you will feel the benefits of success, relief, happiness, joy, and being relaxed when you meet anyone in any situation.

Helpful Links For You From Anxiety Hypnosis.

You can look at some of my past blogs here: anxiety hypnosis 6 quick and easy ways to avoid a panic attack in Walsall
If you would like a Free Complimentary Consultation or you would like to contact me at Anxiety Hypnosis contact me.
You can always download my free 7 solutions to axe anxiety with me The Nexus Team. We can also help you withour Janpanesse style Jikiden Reiki

Helping you towards success.

The Nexus Team.

Call me on the following numbers to book your appointment.

In the UK. M: 07939 905 388

In the UK. T: 01922 285 118

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FEARS & PHOBIAS IN WALSALL by The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis.

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FEARS & PHOBIAS IN WALSALL by The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis.

What is a Phobia?

Phobias are expressed by a total avoidance, to either doing or going anywhere near the subject of the phobia. e.g. If you have a phobia of dentists, this means you will do everything in your power never to go to the dentist. Even if you are in pain with your teeth, phobics would rather pull their own teeth out than visit a dentist. Of course this is only one example…

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What is a Fear?

A fear has varying degrees of what is called a sliding scale of fear. This can range from mild fear to a really bad fear. People who may have a fear of the dentist, would be able to tolerate visiting the dentist. This again is dependant on the severity of the fear. As one might go on their own, another may find a sympathetic dentist and go at a quiet time. This is so that the fear can in some way be managed. Again this can go for other things that people are fearful of, such as needles, snakes, and dogs to name but a few.

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You To Manage Your Fears & Phobias In Walsall.

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You To manage your Fears & Phobias In Walsall is where I have developed special techniques to help people get over their issues. The good news is that you don’t have to put up with the fears or phobias any longer – so long as you really want to get rid of them!
At Anxiety Hypnosis, The Nexus Team will help you to get rid of the fears or phobias, and in many cases he will do this within 1 session. Even if you have failed before to get rid of your fears or phobias, then realise that I can help you.

3 Tips To Help You Manage Your Fears or Phobias.

# 1 Recognise whether this is a fear or phobia you are experiencing. If this is a fear or even a very strong fear, it is easier to deal with on your own than it is to manage a phobia. Managing a phobia can be quite draining as you are constantly on the lookout for danger. A fear isn’t nearly so bad. So now you know what it is you have and most people have a fear to one degree or another.

# 2 So if this is a fear, you have probably taken avoidance most of your life. However this has never cured your fear. One of the best things that you can do is to face what it is that you fear. But don’t rush into this. Set out some rules, limitations and guidelines to make sure you conquer this. e.g could be that you want to get over your fear of heights. Start to get used to the height before you progress to the next level. Let your thoughts become comfortable before you move onwards and upwards.

# 3 If you have a severe phobia, then more than likely you will have to see a specialist that deals with your phobia. Other than that, you can get rid of your fear by knowing as much as you can on that subject. i.e. If you fear spiders, then it might help to know about the spider that you fear. It will not be a deadly spider that you’ll probably never come into contact with – but just the everyday house spider that we have in the UK. Remember that knowledge is power and understanding the spider will help you disarm the negative fears it has had over you.

Anxiety Hypnosis Offering You More Help & Guidance.

  • The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is offering you more help and guidance with links to other blogs as well as how to contact me .
  • Also you can get The Nexus Team’s Anxiety Hypnosis 7 Solutions To Axe Anxiety.
  • My blog link to help you with the fear of flying with The Nexus Team’s Flying Fabulously Tool Kit.
  • My blog link to help you with a journal to help you get organised, this can help you improve by creating a positive mindset.
  • Remember to get you Free Complimentary Consultation.
  • Please look out for future blogs, tips, tricks, and strategies to help you abolish anxiety forever with The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.
  • Our aim is to get you feeling positive, confident, successful. All available in Walsall also we offer you the chance to try our Reiki Healing available in Walsall & Pelsall.

Helping you towards success.

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Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You With Depression.

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You With Depression.

Depression

phoneThose of you who suffer with or from depression need to read this.

It will be of no surprise that people with depression know how bad it can make you feel.

This is more on self analogy and what you could consider changing about yourself to get over depression.

You were not born being depressed, this maybe hard to take on board, but depression is only created by you and nobody else.

Some people are on medication for depression and this is up to you and your doctor to know if you can come off anti depressant medication. But all to often people become too reliant on being medicated.

One of the first things is to realise that like all emotions it is okay to feel depressed. But as with other emotions we experience such as laughing, happy, motivated, crying and so on, you only do these for a while and then move on to another emotion, such as being relaxed.

So in other words it’s okay to be depressed for a while and then come out of it and experience another emotion. Just don’t stay in with a depressed feeling. When you laugh, you don’t keep laughing all the while or if you yawn, you don’t continue, as with crying. You can only cry for so long and then you stop. Start to have the same ability with feeling depressed. (Don’t stay there).

If you are supporting many other negative feelings, e.g. feeling anxious, worried, fearful, having panic attacks, your mind is carrying all the weight of your problems and this becomes your depression.

Depression is you being pressed down into the ground as you balance all the weight of your problems.

You can change, I have helped many people to come out of depression and off medication with doctors supervision and to lead a normal life once more.

Rather than a depression, start to make an impression upon yourself. So what can you do?

Here are some tips to start you on your journey of change.

#1 Pick one emotion that you could do without and change it today. e.g. Begin to worry less and if a worrying thought comes into your head then stop it and think of a wonderful moment in your life.

#2 Once you have an emotion under control, start to work on another one. i.e this could be stay more relaxed and practice breathing techniques.

#3 If you are on medication visit your doctor and ask if it is possible to have a reduction in the strength of the medication to help work your way off the medication.

#4 Notice that some people with depression look depressed by the way they move and hold their heads and they generally talk slower.

#5 Change #4 if this is you. How? By walking upright, also have your chin angled slightly upwards. Have your shoulders back, with stomach held in and breathe from the top part of your chest. Also talking a little bit quicker will stop that depressed voice.

#6 Continue to work away at your depression no matter how bad things may feel. Soon you will look back and realise how far you have come.

If you need a 1-2-1 session with me to kick start you away from feeling depressed and would want to feel better about yourself then contact me at Anxiety Hypnosis.

You can also download my free anxiety hypnosis 7 solutions to axe anxiety, this will start to help you with those other negative emotions that you have been holding onto.

Get your free anxiety hypnosis complimentary consultation to see if I can be of help to you.

I am available in the Birmingham area, Pelsall or Walsall. With The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis.

You may also find that you would benefit from my  Anxiety Hypnosis Japanese Reiki Sessions, you can read about the benefits on Anxiety Hypnosis Jikiden Reiki.

Hopefully this has been of some help for you. I wish you well on you becoming free of depression and remember you were not born being depressed.

Helping you towards success.

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35 Great Goal Setting Tips.

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Below are some GREAT TIPS on GOAL Setting.

If you missed these on FaceBook. I have posted them onto my Anxiety Hypnosis Blog Site.

I have to speak in general terms as I don’t know what your specific goal is. But the method of how it works will be the same principle. (A goal is a goal is a goal).

#1 A goal is only limited by your lack of imagination to have it come into fruition…

#2 Don’t make your goal too unachievable as this will destroy your confidence.

#3 A goal doesn’t have to change the world, it just has to satisfy you.

#4 Your goal can be for anything that you believe will improve you. i.e. to cook a meal, prove that you can be confident, learn to play an instrument, be a better person, change an old negative behaviour pattern, save a certain amount of money, or to get that dream job or your promotion.

#5 Your goal is the end result of a series of events that you have worked too. But more often than not your goal continues to develop.

#6 Now that you have a goal in place, write this in a diary as to when it will happen, this could be to lose weight or to build muscle.

#7 If you have given yourself 6 months to do this. Start to divide your diary up into manageable segments. This can be a review of your accomplishments of each week. e.g You have lost 3 pounds in the first week, so you know you are on track.

#8 Have trust in the process of what you want. You will also need to have a value to why you want to have this goal in the first place.

#9 Start to tell people who you believe will help you get your goal. If someone puts you down, then realise that this is your goal and not theirs and they are telling you that they couldn’t do this. So don’t see their failure as a reflection of you.

#10 You may need to seek help from people you never thought you would need help from. If you want to lose weight, you might have to see a personal trainer, or if you want to speak better for either work related events or self improvement – you may need to go to Toastmasters. And so on.

#11 What is the difference between a person who succeeds and one who fails. It is their story. Both will face the same problems – but failure will talk about how difficult it was and how bad the problems were to overcome and how they got stopped. The success story will be the same as the failure story apart from how they overcame adversity.

#12 Start to act as though you have already accomplished what you set out to do. If this was to pass a test for example, Act as though you have passed. Imagine you want to pass a driving test, you could imagine while you’re out that your car in parked in a certain car park.

#13 The human mind and body has to do what it cannot do. What I mean by this is. If you want to learn to swim, then you have to get into the water, if you want to do public speaking, then you have to speak, If you want to get rid of fear, then you have to do the very thing that makes you fearful. So if you want to be a successful person, then you have to do successful things.

#14 Use positive self talk, you can use a mirror for this and if need be give yourself a telling off, but always end on how you will achieve your goal.

#15 Use a power stance. Stand in front of a full length mirror and strike a pose of success or how you will feel when your goal is completed. Do this twice a day for two minutes at a time. If you see models on the catwalk whether men or women, they walk with power and confidence no matter how crazy the outfit is.

#16 Read and learn as much as you can on having a goal mindset. Once your mind is set to aim for the goal, then it is just a matter of chronological time for the fruits of your labour to manifest.

#17 Imagine the farmer, what he has to do to prepare for the harvest. Waiting a whole year or longer depending on the crop to know that his hard work paid off. Yours will be the same. So don’t pick at nu-ripened fruit as you will have a bitter taste left. In other words don’t judge your success before it’s time.

#18 Don’t be to rigid in your thinking as you may be steered in a different direction to what you thought it was going to be.

#19 Have an appreciation of your milestones and celebrate. The media is great for doing this. Look at the Oscars and Gramme awards, the fancy functions and parties that they throw for themselves. This can be a great boost for you.

#20 Don’t let a failure dictate you away from your goal. If anything that you do, will at some point go wrong. But if you worked this into your goal plan to begin with, then it is no surprise.

#21 There will always be happy accidents as there is no such thing as failure. You only have feedback to know what works best for your goal.

#22 Don’t be overly focused to the detriment of other important values in your life. Such as family and friends and down time.

#23 The mind is a great instrument and it can often work better when you least expect it. Creative companies will let the staff play with toys and have a brightly coloured room to help inspire their minds.

#24 You won’t remember everything related to your goal when you are on this journey. So get ready to record your thoughts, so have a pen and paper handy, especially when you’re in bed as your creative thinking will happen then.

#25 Have time management to help you and don’t burn yourself out to get what you want because it will all turn out for the best in the end, And if it’s not turned out properly, then it’s not the end just yet.

#26 Write down a plan of ACTION every week.

#27 Have positive affirmations that will reinforce the goal for your need. e.g. “I am relaxed more today than yesterday”. “I now have my dream house”. Etc…

#28 Don’t give up at any stage. This is a process and you have to complete it.

#29 Enjoy the journey of achieving your goal as this is as important as accomplishing your GOAL

#30 Always be proactive in getting what you have set out to do. Whether this is to write a daily blog to help and inspire others or conquer your fears or to pass that final exam.

#31 Your brain works better with protein, so eat properly and you will function better.

#32 Have rules, limitations and boundaries. These are important for example if you wanted to write a book. As with a story, you need a system to work to and for your goal, you need a system that will work for you.

#33 Create a discipline order and structure, in other words make a plan of successful events that will prove to you that you are well on your way to achieving your goal.

#34 Remember to be kind to yourself and don’t be too hard as firm flexibility works best.

#35 Let me be the first to congratulate you on your personal success as you knew you could do it. So whether this was a personal achievement to live a happier life, to cook a gourmet meal, or buy your dream house or get that job you wanted, or to help mankind. Whatever it is, realise that you can do it!

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Remember that your goal can be for anything, whether this is to get rid of anxiety or to build your own dream house, and anything in between.
So go out there and make a personal difference to you. Make it count.

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If you need any guidance on your personal goals and/or to conquer your anxiety, fear, or panic attacks then The Nexus Team is here to help you at Anxiety Hypnosis.

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You can also read my other blogs related to other problems, e.g. fear of dogs, fear of spiders, also flying phobias or social anxiety. Read more Anxiety Hypnosis blogs.

You can also get my FREE download to help you with axing your anxiety. Available at Anxiety Hypnosis 7 solutions to help you Axe Anxiety.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is available for 1-2-1 therapy sessions in the Birmingham area of Walsall and Pelsall.

Helping you towards success.

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