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The New Year Relationship

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The New Year Relationship

hypnotherapy-marriage-relationship-issuesThe New Year Relationship can go horribly sour at this time of the year as well as all the stress that comes along, it’s no wonder that relationships tend to breakdown.

Not only do you have to put up with normal stress, you also have the stress of your relationship falling to pieces around you.

This can be difficult at anytime of the year, however it seems to be much worse over the festive period.

What Can You Do To Make Amends?

Don’t have any knee jerk reaction to what has been said, as you will regret it in the long run.

Don’t blame each other as this is probably just over a situation you find yourself in and really not any one’s fault.

Don’t use any children as a weapon to hurt the other person.

You Can See Me at Anxiety Hypnosis.

I have helped many people with relationship issues in the past, to overcome their problems and make a full recovery, so to speak.

I can help you both, because I won’t judge either of you, as the outcome is to help get you back together again.

If your relationship is not retrievable I can help you both be mature about the separation particularly with children. Making it easier by helping you through any rough emotions that you are going through right now.

If you need help, I can be your personal mediator to help get your relationship back on track.

I know couples who seek other forms of counselling, when the counsellor/mediator has chosen one side over the other, to the detriment of that person or the relationship in general.

You can both come and see me for a Free Complimentary Consultation and lets get you both being happy again.

Also you could benefit from listening to my 10 mins relations audio that is available on my anxiety hypnosis personal hypnotic relaxing trance

For your general welfare of helping you to reduce your everyday anxiety, stress, and worry you can get my free anxiety hypnosis 7 solutions to axe anxiety. which is fee to download with my compliments.

If you need to chat or would like to see me and help you with getting your relationship mended again. Then please contact me and anxiety hypnosis contact me.

You can read more information on my past blogs on fears, stress, worry, anxiety, phobias etcetera. Available at my anxiety hypnosis blog.

What type Of Therapy To Help You?

Therapy of either Hypnosis, EMDR,  NLP, and Reiki can all have a benefit on your well-being. Available in the Birmingham area of Walsall and Pelsall.

The Nexus Team can help as a relate or marriage guidance with non judgemental therapist.

Love.

Remember to just love one another more now as you both need this more than ever before.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You towards Success.

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8 TIPS TO BE A DOG FOR A DAY.

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BE A DOG FOR A DAY.

Dogs always seem to be living in the present moment.

Be a dog for a day Anixety Hypnosis The Nexus TeamWhat I mean by this statement is that they are in the here and now… unlike people who are always worried about the future or tomorrow by being caught up in the never ending cycle of anxiety. Or the overriding guilt of the past and how it affects you in everyday life of making decisions. Do you ever see a dog like this?

Someone is visiting.

If you say to a person that you are having a visitor, the reply is when are they coming round and already you are thinking of the future. However if you tell a dog that his friend is coming to see him, he thinks that time is right now, but you probably meant for him to realise that this is in a couple of hours or so and not right now.

Dogs get excited at the thought of NOW and living in the NOW. Unlike you as you are living either in the past or future, which both of these thoughts carry guilt or anxiety.

Fabric of your happiness.

The fabric of your happiness can be so weak that it can be easily undone either by a thought or by someone else. You have to constantly patch your happiness up because of not living in this present moment.

My Tips To Help.

These tips are for fun, but can help.

#1 Think like a dog and live in the now as if every second is all you have.
#2 What would the human you chose to act like if your were a dog? …What would you think of?
#3 What would you have as your favourite toy? …And why?
#4 What would you think of your owner who is constantly worried etc…
#5 How would you tell the human you to act and behave?
#6 Now as a human start to play these thoughts out of what the dog told you.
#7 Live in this moment as this is all you can do and you can be free of Guilt and/or Anxiety.
#8 Remember to find happiness in the smallest and intensification of things. This will help patch up the fabric of your happiness.

Help is here.

If you what a private individual session to help you feel less stressed, with less anxiety also leaving you with the ability to feel more confident in everyday situations, then I can help you!

Imagine a life free of all the ties of anxiety, fears, worry with that constant feeling of dread as all gone…

Anxiety Hypnosis with me The Nexus Team will help you to take back control of your emotions and set yourself free.

Be confident, happier, relaxed with more motivation. You can have this if you truly value yourself. Start today by contacting me for a FREE Complimentary Consultation.

Anxiety Hypnosis Contact Me to start your therapy today.

Here is my FREE Anxiety Hypnosis 10 mins relaxing session for you to listen to right here form my Free Stuff Page.

I will also personalise an MP3 for you concerning any Anxiety, Fear, Stress, Worry, Depression. OR why not just have an MP3 designed to help you with CONFIDENCE, MOTIVATION, RELAXATION or anything you feel you need help with. 

How to order your personal MP3.

Click the link here: Anxiety Hypnosis Personal hypnotic Trace MP3 and I’ll do all the rest for you and all for only £9.97

So if you live in the Birmingham area or near to Pelsall  or Walsall, you can have a 1-2-1 private therapy session with me an Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis: Helping you towards success.

ps I can also help  you get over the fear of dogs.

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7 Christmas Tips Helping You De~Stress.

A report out today states that 25 to 34 year old’s get more stressed over Christmas time than other age groups over the festive period.

So what to do about it?

#1 Tell yourself to stay calm.
#2 Take deep breathes.
#3 Whether you’re out or at home, STOP for a moment and take a drink of water.
#4 Eat protein as this helps your brain function better.
#5 Think! Is your stress really real or are you making yourself feel stressed?
#6 Just enjoy the moment of now, kids don’t get stressed and you are the product of a child.
#7 Start to feel the excitement of Christmas and the joy it can bring you.

Just Relax…

Christmas can be a stressful time of the year for anyone, but to realise that you can relax no matter where you are or what you are doing is a bonus.

My Free Stuff.

If you want to take 10 mins out of your day and relax by listening to me for FREE you can right here on my FREE STUFF PAGE.

If you think that you would benefit from me making you a personalised MP3 you can also order it here. From Anxiety Hypnosis Personal Hypnotic Trance. 

You may like to try a REIKI therapy session to help deepen your relaxation and this is available in Walsall or Pelsall which is in the Birmingham area. At Anxiety Hypnosis Jididen Reiki.

You can contact me to find out more at Anxiety Hypnosis -Contact me:

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One more extra tip for free.

#8 Write down what how to plan your day out and stick to it!
The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis helping you towards success.
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GET ORGANISED. …WITH A JOURNAL…

GET ORGANISED. …WITH A JOURNAL…

Having a journal has to be one of the best ways of helping you beat anxiety.

Here are some of my top tips in writing your anxiety journal.

#1 Get a note book to write on or use your computer or mobile.

#2 Write down what makes you feel the most anxious.

#3 Practice a strategy that will help reduce your anxiety feelings.

#4 Write how your day progressed throughout and add a value to your feelings. i.e. was this a 6/10 negative feeling.

#5 Write down what made you feel calmer.

#6 Write how long it took you to bring down any negative feelings of anxiousness.

#7 Start to compare what’s working for you to bring down your anxiety level.

#8 Start to put a plan of action into place that will work for you.

#9 Write down how well your new calming techniques are working for you.

#10 Write down what didn’t work so well.

#11 Always finish your journal articles off with a positive contribution that will help you cope better the next day.

Put these into practice and remember that you have never died from any anxiety problems and you have always come through the other side.  Have this as you own personal Health and Safety Manual.

Good luck.

One more thing is to get an old newspaper and a black pen and write on the paper all your anxiety problems. Once you have written them down, don’t read what you have written on the newspaper, now destroy the newspaper, do this as often as it takes to get rid of all your pent up anxiety.

If you would like to see me to help with anxiety you can contact me here.

Or you can download my Free 7Tips Solutions E-guide to help Axe-Anxiety. 

You can also listen to a 10 mins taster session of relaxation.

I can give you a Free Complimentary Consultation to see how I can best help you with your anxiety problems.

I work in Walsall and Pelsall within the Birmingham area. if this is convenient for you to have a 1-2-1 session of Anxiety Hypnosis to help you.

The Nexus Team is Helping you towards success.

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Let Kids Drink Alcohol…

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Anxiety Hypnosis Welcoming Kids to Drink Alcohol.

Let you kids drink.

Letting your child drink alcohol isn’t a bad thing. If you let kids drink at a young age, the chances are that they will have the knowledge that drinking is okay. Also that alcohol has never been off limits and so it doesn’t hold so much attraction compared to someone who has never drank.

I’m 18 now and you can’t stop me…

I’m sure as parents we have all heard this from an 18 year old and it’s true in their eyes. (But not in ours).

So today is the day they are 18 and off to the pub, probably like you. How do you think now that they are being allowed into the pub or club, they going to act?

Parents.

Be mindful of allowing your kids to drink and dispel the myths and attraction of alcohol. Remember anything off limits holds our interest with fascination, as this leads to a deep desire to try something we are not allowed. …’The forbidden fruit’ so to speak. And that happened at the beginning of time and we are still acting the same way.

So everything in moderation and let your child enjoy themselves, this will lead to a more respectful and well rounded individual and you know that you have took away that interest of alcohol. Also you have possibly saved their life by not having to wait to be in their 30’s to realise that they don’t need to binge drink.

What to do next.

If you have a drink problem that needs attention and feel that Anxiety Hypnosis could help you and you are in the Birmingham area. Then I practice from Walsall & Pelsall. Contact me at Anxiety Hypnosis.

Helping you towards success.
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Crying Babies Help Stop Anxiety

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How Crying Babies Can Help With Anxiety.

‘Cry baby’ is the example that I’m using to help combat your anxiety…

How many times has a baby started to cry and instinctively you distract it away from its crying.

Misdirection. 

You Sing, Dance, Pull Faces, Make Weird Sound, Wave Toys, Keys, Teddies and Favourite Toys etc. in the child’s face and so on.

Distraction…

Imagine that this could be done to you every time you started to have an anxious moment in your life.

How quickly do you think it would take for you to snap out of it by being distracted. Just as the baby is from crying.

Well you can distract yourself with ease by doing the same thing to yourself as to the crying child. …Start acting a bit daft!

You Can Dance…

Dance, Sing, Breathe, Play, Exercise, use you mobile to help distract you, use your imagination by thinking of good things that have happened to you. Do anything that feels right to distract yourself away from that anxiousness, as with the misdirecting of the child…

Try Counting.

I’ve even known some people do weird maths in their heads. One guy used to calculate how long it would take him to walk to the moon if he was walking at 3 miles per hour. This took his mind away from anxiety by being distracted.

Remember Stress isn’t Anxiety.

So use whatever fits you as a distraction method. But if you are stressed, this is because you’re frustrated and that has happened because things haven’t gone how you expected them too. This isn’t anxiety.

What To Do?

So ease off by removing yourself away from the problem and distract yourself by taking slow deep breaths for a while. This will calm you down by balancing your mind and body.

You will then be able to return to the problem once more,  being able to deal with it more affectively.

More Details. 

If you do require further help as a 1-2-1 personal therapy, I work from Walsall and Pelsall In the Birmingham area.

You can also receive a Free Complimentary Consultation.

Download my free tips to help Axe Anxiety.

Listen to my 10 mins relaxing session for FREE. I will also custom make an mp3 for your anxiety needs.

You can contact me.

Helping you towards success.
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8 Anxiety Hypnosis Busting Tips

8 Anxiety Hypnosis Busting Tips

‘Below you will find 8 Anxiety Hypnosis Busting Tips to help you with Anxiety’ 

Fighting Anxiety.

Fighting Anxiety is one of the hardest things you can do-or rather the lack of you doing anything about it to begin with.
If you have ANXIETY and you tell people about your problem, then that’s okay. But if you tell people about your ANXIETY, but you aren’t doing anything to change it, then you are just whining.

 8 Anxiety Hypnosis Tips… 

               Here are 8 Anxiety Hypnosis tips to bust through your problems.

Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham Walsall Pelsall# 1 Start to create mental distance between you and the problem, see it as if someone has come to seek advice from you. You tell them how they can deal with the problem.
# 2 Focus on what you can do to change the negative to a positive outcome.
# 3 Stop acting surprised how people are around you. If you know that a person is negative, then it is no surprise if they start to make you feel down.
# 4 Start to gather friends who make you feel better and always leave them feeling better.
# 5 Don’t be an agony aunt for other people as this will drain your energy, making you feel tired.
# 6 Set rules, limitations and boundaries on what you want from yourself.
# 7 If crap has happened in your life, then what a surprise as this happens to everyone. Don’t let the negative event tell you how to feel.
# 8 Train your mind everyday. Start to say nice things about yourself. Try this for 1 week and see what happens.

The Nexus Team.

The Nexus Team can offer you a 1-2-1 private therapy session to help you conquer your anxiety. The techniques that I use are there to help you de-clutter your mind of anxious thoughts.
I use a combination of Hypnosis, N.L.P. and E.M.D.R. Also Christine and I are qualified Jikiden Reiki Therapists. Here you have a great option to get you mentally well from anxiety.

What To Do Next.

We offer you a great solution to help conquer anxiety, then to help bring about confidence by getting to be back in control.
If you need to know more or curious of what we have on offer to help you, then please contact me. You can get my 7 tips to axe anxiety from Anxiety Hypnosis. Or book a FREE complimentary consultation.

The Nexus Team.

The Nexus Team works from home in the Walsall area, he also has a practice in Pelsall which is a suburb of Birmingham. If you would like a free complimentary consultation, then please contact me. You can also download my FREE 7-solutions-to-axe-anxiety. We pride ourselves on results for our clients, see what past clients had to say on: What people are saying.

Until then take care – Helping you towards success.

The Nexus Team & Christine.

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7 TIPS TO CONQUER THE FEAR OF DRIVING

7 TIPS TO CONQUER THE FEAR OF DRIVING. 

 

The Fear of Driving.

Fear of Driving Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham, Walsall, Pelsall, Sutton ColdfieldIn the UK alone, the fear of driving or “driving phobia” as it is often referred to affects thousands of suffers in the UK alone and although not publicly admitted, it is in fact one of the most common fears that we see. The fear of driving is also one of the most restricting and life altering phobias there is, as for most people, driving is a big part of their everyday life. If you suffer from a severe case of a driving phobia it can affect not only your ability to travel for work, college or university but also stop you from doing the everyday things in life that give you a sense of purpose, such as shopping, socializing, sports or attending your favourite hobbies.

When it comes to diagnosing the cause of your fear, it is relatively easy with driving phobias. Often the suffer has been the victim of a driving related trauma, such as being in an accident themselves, having a family member badly injured or often killed in a road traffic accident or even witnessing a tragic accident that they weren’t directly involved in. These situations are of course understandable but that does not deter from the impact that this phobia can have on an individual’s life.
However, in much milder cases the driver may just be fearful of what others think about their manoeuvring, parking or over all driving ability and therefore choose not to drive for this reason.

 

Driving In Birmingham.

Commuters either passing through or driving in Birmingham city centre face their fears of the busy traffic as with any major city. The fear of the weather conditions or anxiety of where to park. Feeling stressed as you have to face unknown territory and having to change lanes etc… The whole emotional detrimental affect can leave you drained and exhausted. Of course this is how road rage happens, by over reacting irrationally. It has also been known that people are killed via road rage. All possibly because of you having the fear of driving…

Common Symptoms.

The symptoms associated with a fear of driving are very similar to those associated with the fear of flying. These symptoms can often lead to raised levels of anxiety and even panic attacks. These can be especially dangerous if they occur whilst the sufferer is driving.

Symptoms can include; sweating, accelerated pulse or heart rate, increased levels of nervousness, nausea and shaking of the limbs.

Women in particularly may feel they are not good drivers because their husbands etc, have made fun of their driving abilities, this leads to them feeling they are incapable of good driving. This can lead to them questioning their ability to drive correctly, this starts their mind to feel fear of driving. You can see how easy it is to lose your confidence or take it away from somebody else.

What Can I Do To Overcome And Manage My Fear Of Driving?

There is a real difference between simply managing your fear of driving and overcoming it. Although managing your fear can be beneficial in the short term, it is not a long term solution and still leaves you wondering if the fear will take over again at any time. The most successful, easiest and long-term solution for completely overcoming your fear is to use Anxiety Hypnosis.
The Nexus Team Hypnotherapy have been helping clients from Birmingham, Walsall, Pelsall, Sutton Coldfield and the surrounding areas, overcome their driving phobias for many years, all in a safe and comfortable environment. He will even travel in the car with and also with the supervision of a driving instructor until you feel empowered to drive on your own once more.

What can I do next?

Are you currently suffering from a fear of driving or any driving related phobia which is causing any of the symptoms above, increased levels of anxiety or panic attacks and it is also preventing you from driving to your workplace, study centre or social events? If so, then there is no better time to contact me at The Nexus Team Hypnotherapy today. With my help, you can take control of your travel plans once again and overcome your driving phobia once and for all.

Anxiety Hypnosis Tips.

Anxiety Hypnosis Tips to get the best out of you and reduce your fear of driving by getting you in control and in the driving seat once again.

Tips:

# 1 Drive with some one who will offer you encouragement whilst you are driving.
# 2 Drive at less busier times until you regain your confidence.
# 3 Get a car that suits you, this maybe an automatic.
# 4 Women, only drive in sensible shoes and not high heels.
# 5 Drive either in the day or night depending what conditions you prefer, until you are confident.
# 6 Contact a driving instructor to refresh your driving.
# 7 Take an advanced driving exam, this can prove to you that you can drive correctly.

Give these a go, but if you have had a trauma that you know would require my help then please contact me. I will get you driving again with confidence.

Driving Exam.

Your driving exam can be a fearful time as you feel more stressed and anxious as the impending examination day gets ever closer.

I can offer you a 1-2-1 private Anxiety Hypnosis therapy session to help get you through this stressful time in your life.
My aim is to drastically reduce your fears and worries by taking away your anxiety and so make you feel confident and calmer so you conquer your doubts. You will soon be either back in the driving seat or taking that exam in complete confidence that you know you can pass your driving exam with relative ease.

The Nexus Team.

The Nexus Team works from home in the Walsall area, he also has a practice in Pelsall which is a suburb of Birmingham. If you would like a free complimentary consultation, then please contact me. You can also download my FREE 7-solutions-to-axe-anxiety. See what my past clients had to say on: What people are saying. 

Jikiden Reiki

We also offer you Reiki Therapy, which is a great way to help re-balance your mind and body. You can either choose myself or Christine.

I look forward to helping you overcome your fear of driving.

The Nexus Team, Helping You Towards Success.
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Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham Stress

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Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham Focus on Stress.

When you focus your attention on either Stress, Anxiety, Fear, Worry, Depression etc, as many people do in the Birmingham area. As I explain my metaphor in my video called “The Pebble In My Shoe”,   you can begin to think differently about your so call BIG problem.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.

As individuals, we are all different and trying to sort your own Anxiety problems out isn’t always easy faced alone. However The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis is here to offer you that help you deserve with your Fears, Stress, Worries and so forth.

About Anxiety Hypnosis Video

Anxiety Hypnosis offering you advice. This video is about how you focus on the negative emotions of life even though the problem isn’t as big as you think it is. Contact me at hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

How to Find The Nexus Team, Plus Free Stuff.

I practice in Walsall and Pelsall in the Birmingham area. I offer you a 1-2-1 private session and I tailor the therapy to suit your particular needs.

Enjoy the video and if you have any questions then please contact me. You can also see what past clients have to say about me on: What People Are Saying. You can also download my Free Stuff here as a thank you for watching my video.

Helping you towards success.

 

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Social Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham

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Social Anxiety In Birmingham

Social – Anxiety Hypnosis Helping People In Birmingham.

Birmingham people who are suffering social anxiety, if you are one of these, then you know how bad this negative emotion can effect your daily life. Even worse if you have to meet other people in a work environment, this debilitating disorder ends up controlling you by stopping you meeting other people in a social manner.

Social Drinking & Clubbing in Birmingham.

The Nexus Team can help you to become more confident in your own skin and confident to interact with other people whether at work or socially. Anxiety Hypnosis has helped people to get their self control back. I had a client who started to panic with bad anxiety attacks before he was to meet up with his friends in Birmingham. He was around 18 years old and he recognised that this feeling was getting worse each time he wanted to go out on the social scene, on the usual Friday night drinking and clubbing. …You get the picture?

Can Anxiety Hypnosis Help You?

Anxiety_Hypnosis_The Nexus Team_Johnson_ChristineAfter 5 therapy sessions he was much better and able to go out without the fear of panic or anxiety having too much effect on him. He used to feel sick in the taxi when he was going into Birmingham. But for him we managed to stop this sickness and let him enjoy his youth much more when he ventured out on the social scene.

Social Anxiety with The Nexus Team

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis has the expertise to skilfully direct you away from the negative and painful trauma of Panic, Stress, Fear, Worry, and Anxiety, by getting your mind to be relaxed. Hypnotherapy is one of the best ways to help relax your mind and body.

What to Expect from Anxiety Hypnosis?

First of all, you will only be dealing with me, The Nexus Team and I will talk you through the stages of what I do and how best to design a therapy that will suit you and your specific needs to get you back in control. Lets face it, if you drive then you are already interacting with other people in a large if not a social event, but never the less interacting with everyone around you. All we have to do is break down these barriers.

Anxiety Hypnosis Free Stuff, Videos, Contact, & Support.

I am offering you the chance to get hold of my Axe-Anxiety 7 Free Stuff to download. You can also view what my past clients On What People Are Saying. Here are my Anxiety Hypnosis Contact-Me details.
You can feel assured that when you receive hypnotherapy from me that if you would like on going support then I am here to give that to you. Book a Free Complimentary Consultation and let your social anxiety be a thing of the past.

You can receive therapy from me at Pelsall or Walsall which is in the Birmingham area. You can also book a session of Reiki therapy which I offer to my clients. Hopefully this is of some help and if you would like to know anything further on how I can help with other problems of either Stress, Anxiety, Fear, Phobias etc… please contact: hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk Christine is also a Jikiden Reiki Therapist and if you would prefer to only receive reiki from Christine, please use the same contact for myself.  

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You Towards Success.

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