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ANXIETY HYPNOSIS FEAR OF HEIGHTS.

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HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR ANXIOUS FEAR OF HEIGHTS (ACROPHOBIA) with Anxiety Hypnosis.

Birmingham/Walsall Anxiety Hypnosis.

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What is the anxious fear of heights?

Acrophobia, or the fear of heights is an extremely common fear, affecting up to 1 in 20 adults in the UK alone. This fear seems to be little easier to manage than some of the other most common fears as it is reasonably easy to avoid a situation where you will find yourself standing at a great height. Acrophobic individuals generally experience bouts of anxiety or panic attacks should they find themselves in a location which is set at a great height.

Anxiety Hypnosis  Helping Suffers of Acrophobia

Anxiety Hypnosis The Nexus Team Birmingham/Walsall Helping with the fear of heights

Anxiety Hypnosis conquering fear of heights

Simply tend to avoid activities such as roller coasters, Ferris wheels, bungee jumping or famously high landmarks such as The Empire State Building and The Eiffel Tower and stick the ground based recreational activities. However, avoiding these places does not mean you have overcome your fear and in the event that you expectedly find yourself at the top of a tall building or in a location that is set up high, you will more than likely experience some of the symptoms once again.

As with most phobias, the fear of heights seems to stem from an earlier negative life experience such as an accident, trauma or loss. For some individuals, just thinking about being up high is enough to bring on some level of panic or anxiety.

What are the symptoms of Acrophobia?

The fear of heights should not be confused with the medical condition of “vertigo”, which is often associated with height. Vertigo is actually a condition whereby sufferers experience a spinning effect when they are standing or sitting still.
If you already know that you suffer from a fear of heights, or you find yourself in a high up location where you feel that you are not in control, you may experience one or more of the following symptoms;

At Anxiety Hypnosis we aim to help you reduce the following:

Increase in heart rate
Sweating
Heightened levels of fear
Shaking Limbs
Nausea
Dizziness
Irrational thoughts

When such symptoms are present, many sufferers of Acrophobia tend to lower their body towards the floor, descend from their position or even sit or lie on the ground.

What can The Nexus Team do to overcome and manage your anxious fear of heights?

The difference between managing your fears and overcoming them is quite large. By simply managing your fear of heights by not visiting locations set at height, you are not addressing the deeper lying issues. However, a long term solution to overcoming your fears completely is available in the form of Anxiety hypnosis. This treatment is by far the easiest way to completely overcome your fears and face your fears head on!

Anxiety Hypnosis with The Nexus Team Hypnotherapy have helping many clients from all over the United Kingdom, overcome their phobias for many years and all in a safe and comfortable environment that is perfectly suited to your needs.

What can I do next?

If you are currently suffering from a fear of heights or find that you experience any of the related symptoms that have been mentioned above, then contact me at The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis. With my help, and with the assistance of my NLP and EMDR  skills.  You can take control of your fears again and overcome your phobia once and for all.

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Staying in the Moment Anxiety Hypnosis

Anxiety Hypnosis offering you practical solutions to you anxiety in the Walsall/Birmingham areas.

This video is to help you with Anxiety.

How best you can use the moment to get you out of the negative thinking very quickly.

I hope you can use this as I have made it easy. If you want to know more, then please look at my other videos on stress, anxiety, fear.

Please watch the video.


Don’t Struggle Alone.

However I know for some people who may be struggling to get control of their anxiety  you may require a 1-2-1 session with me to help you out of your current situation.

I practice from Walsall just outside Birmingham West Midlands. Although the main focus is using hypnosis to treat my clients I am also a master practitioner of NLP Neuro-Linguistic Programming also I use EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).

All are safe and non invasive.

You can catch my other videos click here:. More video tips Anxiety Hypnosis

You can view what past clients had to say about me click here: Anxiety Hypnosis Testimonials

I can get you to be stress free with the knowing that I will give you ongoing support if you should require this.

As a thank you for taking the time out to read and view my posts, here is a free gift for you to download to help you with 7 practical tips to help with Anxiety. Click here: 7-SOLUTIONS-TO-AXE-ANXIETY

Remember at Anxiety Hypnosis with me The Nexus Team is also about enjoying the experience of changing and doesn’t have to be hard, but rather the opposite by having fun.

Contact me here:  The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis

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6 REASONS WHY ANXIETY HYPNOSIS WON’T WORK ON YOU!

ANXIETY HYPNOSIS in Walsall/Birmingham

6 REASONS WHY ANXIETY HYPNOSIS WON’T WORK ON YOU!

Below I will give you the reasons to why Anxiety Hypnosis won’t work on you because…

#1 First and foremost you have to be ready to change, so if you’re not ready, it is difficult to get you to change and free yourself from anxiety etc…

#2 You don’t value yourself enough to change and to become the person you want to be. People value everything, this is not in a monetary term, but the value of thought/emotion onto anything.

#3 People will want to prove a point that they are always right and you can’t change me! So this will try to make a therapist look as though they are incompetent.

#4 Your ability to lack the quality of expanding your awareness and so raise your positive vibrational energy.

#5 The massive amount of excuses to help keep you in your negative state of thinking. e.g. Too old, too young, too tried, no time, and so on…

#6 You never turned up for therapy.

6 REASONS WHY ANXIETY HYPNOSIS WILL WORK FOR YOU…

Below I will give you the reasons to why Anxiety Hypnosis WILL work on you because…

#1 You recognise that you want to change and that you are now ready for the new positive you, also that you no longer fear the change.

#2 You have pride in yourself that adds value to your ability of self believe, to be emotive in the change you want.

#3 You are no longer afraid of leaving the old crowd/tribe of people and friends behind. You realise that other people can also be right.

#4 You now know that there is something else within you that drives a desire to raise your conscious awareness. This maybe that you have noticed certain signs that are telling you to move on and seek change.

#5 You are of an age that you now know that old excuses no longer work for you how they once did. You’re not too old, too young, too tired, and you now know you have time.

#6 You received therapy form Anxiety Hypnosis from The Nexus Team and you feel so much better and once more it didn’t take that long.

Don’t take my word for this. Here are a few testimonials of how my past clients now feel. Click here.

You can have the same experience if you truly value yourself and know that you can be that person who is screaming to come out of you.

In the meantime as you ponder whether to contact me, receive a free gift from me as a thank you to reading this blog.
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Speak soon.

The Nexus Team

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The Nexus Team is located in Walsall but also serving the people of Birmingham and surrounding areas. If you live in the West Midlands and would like my help or to just know more of what I can do for you. then please feel free to contact me here. 

I am an Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist with many 1000’s of clients who have been treated. If you would like to be apart of these successful people, as I know you can be. Then contact me, so we can start to enjoy the fun of changing.

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Kids Stress & Anger by Anxiety Hypnosis

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Kids Stress & Anger

Kids and anger, kids and tantrums, and kids with stress!
It’s harder than ever for school kids today to get through life without stress. Certainly with any unsuccessful grades they get it is soon posted on social media.
So life for them is to constantly perform, nowadays they have more homework than ever as well as performance in the arts or with games etc..
Consequently kids will fake illness or will just avoid school altogether. They will demonstrate anger, eating disorders, depression, and suicide all because of the stress, which can include bullying.
I can offer your child an effective therapy to help get their confidence back, de-stress them and so get a more balanced child that is a pleasure to be with.

Helping you towards success.

The Nexus Team from Anxiety Hypnosis in Walsall/Birmingham & surrounding areas is her to get you relaxed by helping you to manage your stressful life in a more productive way…

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Is Stress Killing You?

Stress is killing You!

Stress in the work place is one of the major factors which result in people take many sick days from work.
Chronic stress can be the cause of heart failure and even some forms of cancer. At it’s mildness you get a bad nights sleep or backache to name a few.
Does your stress load at work make you feel like you’re drowning in illness after illness?
Then you are probably a prime candidate to have my treatment to get you free from your stress.
Call me today to see how I can help you with my techniques to help you be stress free.
I look forward to seeing you shortly.
Helping you towards success.

Available from The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis in Walsall/Birmingham & surrounding areas.

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Ammunition to Bust Your Anxiety, Stress, Fears, Phobias

INTRO VIDEO.

Wobbling.

This is about stopping you from Wobbling.

That means stop Judging events, places and people.

Watch the video and I will explain.

I’ll be posting a new video tomorrow, so catch up with you then!

Helping you towards success.

 

http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_SOWxs0JCM

2/5 Videos.

Wrong Food Can Cause Anxiety/Stress.

This video is about what can cause the symptoms of stress/anxiety that can feel like brain fog.

If you don’t consume the right nutrients for your brain, then you will not process information properly and so feel stressed.

This is a simple and most effective way to deal with this problem.

I hope you like the video, but if you would prefer a 1-2-1 private free complimentary consultation to deal with your particular problem that you are suffering.

Then please contact me at hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping you towards success.

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ILLUSION OF FEAR!!

Fear can easily disappear, all you have to do is get creatively confident by conquering your fear.

Watch the video, I’ll explain.

If you need an effective remedy for your fear of Dogs, Spiders, or Exams etc, contact me for a free complimentary consultation to see how I can help you by conquering your particular fear.

I will show you how you can live a life of being fearless.

My #1 tip is get to understand what it is that you are fearful of, because the more you understand what it is then the fear can go away by itself.

But if you are struggling with your worst fear and don’t know where to start, then call me today.

What I will do for you?
I will assess your fear and with my techniques by getting you to an even better understanding to help you to overcome this.
I will also personally adapt a hypnotic trace for you to deal with your fear and get you to conquer the fear.
I will offer you ongoing support if you should require further help, so you can be assured that you won’t be left on your own.

Helping you towards success.

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BACK AWAY FROM THE STRESS!

Stress can build up each time you endure it and this makes you get used to the stress. Until one day you have a breakdown.

Stress is the number one reason people are off work or they have related stress problems.

Here are some key things that you can do to help improve your overall stressful life.

#1 As in the video, remove yourself away from a stressful situation, until your head feels clear and can tattle the problem once more.

#2 Notice that everybody’s threshold of stress is different. If you have a low tolerant towards stress then notice this and keep yourself in check, that means you are in control of your stress level.

#3 If you feel your stress creeping up into the red zone, like the rev counter on a car, then you know it’s time to either breathe deeper or remove yourself from the problem if possible.

If your stress is at its peek, then I would advise you to seek out a therapist who deals with stress, as I do. I can help with hypnosis and NLP to get you not to over react to stressful problems again.
I can also offer you on going support, until you feel confident enough. I will also help with confidence to get you back in control.

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Worry, Stress, Anxiety, and Fear can lead to PHOBIC HYSTERIA! 

Being phobic can be quite dangerous because of the panic and/or being hysterical can make you behave adversely.

What do I mean? You are driving along and a wasp enters the car, you are then in a heightened panic, an hysterical act because of your phobia. Then the next second you’re swerving all over the road. (not good)

There is really only one solution to your phobia and that is to come and see me or a therapist who deals in phobias.

Watch and enjoy my video, then if you are phobic, I can offer you the solution to your problem.

I will help take away your phobic problem and that means you will be out of danger.

I use a great method of getting you to have a new perception of your phobic world.

I will get you back to being confident and phobic free.

How’s that sound?

Contact me hellohello@anxietyhypnosis.co.uk

Helping you towards success.

If you require any help with anything that you have see in the videos, then I will help you to get over your problems. This is in the Birmingham & Walsall areas With me The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis.

Join me for a free complimentary consultation to find out more…

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DEPRESSED YOUNG MEN KILLING THEMSELVES

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YOUNG MEN KILLING THEMSELVES
IS AN ALL TIME HIGH FOR A DECADE.

Depression.

Depression is so rife in young men that they are killing themselves as this epidemic continues to spread.
The following are all symptoms of depression, and if you tick off five or more of any of them you are probably depressed.

My feelings

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I feel restless and agitated
I get tearful easily
I feel numb, empty and full of despair
I feel isolated and unable to relate to other people
I am unusually irritable or impatient
I find no pleasure in life or things I usually enjoy
I feel helpless
I have lost interest in sex
I am experiencing a sense of unreality

My behaviour

I’m not doing activities I usually enjoy
I am avoiding social events I usually enjoy
I have cut myself off from others and can’t ask for help
I am self-harming
I find it difficult to speak

My thoughts

I am having difficulty remembering things
I find it hard to concentrate or make decisions
I blame myself a lot and feel guilty about things
I have no self-confidence or self-esteem
I am having a lot of negative thoughts
The future seems bleak
What’s the point?
I have been thinking about suicide

My physical symptoms

I have difficulty sleeping
I am sleeping much more than usual
I feel tired and have no energy
I have lost my appetite, and am losing weight
I am eating a lot more than usual and putting on weight
I have physical aches and pains with no obvious physical cause
I am moving very slowly
I am using more tobacco, alcohol or other drugs than usual

Depression presents itself in many different ways. You may not realise what’s going on, because sometimes your problems seem to be physical, rather than mental or emotional. There are also some other mental health problems often linked to depression.

Anxiety

People who are depressed often have anxiety as well – the two problems often occur together, and each can make the other worse. If you are feeling anxious, your mind may be full of busy, repetitive thoughts, which make it hard to concentrate, relax, or sleep. You may have physical symptoms, such as headaches, aching muscles, sweating and dizziness.

Source from www.mind.org.uk

Men.

As depression is not discriminant, then anyone can be a long term suffer. However young men ought to be living a life that is precious and not having thoughts of killing themselves.
One of the big problems is that this can also be about pride, also attitude towards depression, this could be about denial.

When young men are in the state of being fit and healthy as well as wanting to be an alpha male, but are now faced with this internal bad feeling of depression, it can send the mind into a turmoil of utter confusion and this makes them hide the problem even more so. Men are also well known for not talking about their problems and so to talk to anyone can feel like a weakness.

Anxiety Hypnosis.

The Nexus Team at Anxiety Hypnosis has helped many people with depression this also includes young men who have suffered for years.
It is important for young men with depression and anxiety to contact a therapist who deals with their problems. To have a free consultation to express their feelings and to feel comfortable with the therapist and find out if they will feel any better with hypnotherapy. Also this is a private and confidential service, so whether this is in Birmingham or Walsall or you chose a therapist who is local to you to get the help you require. After all, suicide is a long term solution for a short term problem.

Man-up!

So guys this is your real test in how to man-up and grow some balls and do something about your problem. This will not just effect you, but will go through the whole of the family. Close family members will feel what you are going through and it will be as bad for them as for you. Suicide is not an option because of the devastation to the family and friends who are left behind as this could include your own young child.
So think on guys and get some help today because this won’t get better and just go away on its own.

Tip.

Start to talk to someone who you feel you can trust, this will give you confidence to seek professional help, whether this is your doctor, counsellor, Hypnotherapist, mom, dad, or even your mate down the pub.

Contact me today at Anxiety Hypnosis you get your free complimentary consultation.

Helping you towards success.

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ANXIETY HYPNOSIS BRINGING DOWN RAISED BLOOD PRESSURE

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Is Your Stress Making You a Diabetic?

RAISED BLOOD PRESSURE.

Into the Danger Zone

There are no symptoms for having high blood pressure, if you have high blood pressure you are likely to get type 2 diabetes.

Out of 4 million people tested, 60% had a higher risk of getting type 2 diabetes, again no symptoms.

Things that might be happening to you, that you could have a blood sugar problem:

1. Visiting the toilet more often.High Blood Pressure Anxiety Hypnosis Birmingham Walsall The Nexus Team
2. Feeling more thirsty.
3. Being more tired than usual.
4. Blurred vision.
5. Losing weight without dieting.
6. Genital itching or thrush.
7. Wounds are taking longer to heal.

The only way of knowing whether you have high blood pressure in the have it checked.

THINK of what builds your blood pressure up to begin with?

Constant high levels of stress, this is usually the case from a working environment where sales people have to hit targets week in and week out.

Because our bodies get used to the pressure of the stress we put up with it and it habituates. We really don’t notice it until we get even more stressed and only then will you feel ready to blow your top.

Of course all of this leads to getting more anxious and worrying as your health begins to deteriorate.
Your health is getting worse, leading to more sick days of work. The thought of loosing your job stresses you out and this leads to you being more anxious.

Valuing yourself.

If you really value yourself, before it’s too late you now have to really change your life style, before you end up going to anger management courses or receiving stress management counselling or are on long term medication for diabetes.

At the end of the day your health matters and no one else is going to look after you and know how you’re feeling until you put the changes into your life today.

Anxiety Hypnosis Could Help You.

I am here at Anxiety Hypnosis to help you with anxiety, stress, anger, and also to help you know how to manage this, so anxiousness will no longer be a problem.

If you want an effective way to manage your anxiety and stress levels and you feel that you would benefit from hypnosis, then you are the perfect candidate to join me and start to live a life you truly deserve.

My #1 TOP TIP.

would be to engage more in the relaxing aspects of your life and you will know what these are and what suits you, then start to retreat away from the stress. This can be done with taking quality breaks. i.e. you don’t do any work when on your break, also create a structure of work load that you can call time-out by not having to do your work at home all the time.

Kids have always had the right attitude when given homework to do from school, that they don’t want to do it! And at the end of the day neither should you, particular if it is leading you to:

1. Stress.
2. Blood pressure.
3. Type 2 diabetes.
4. Anxiety.
5. Anger issues.
6. Relationship problems.
7. Panic attacks.
8. Long term sickness.

Remember you didn’t sign up for this!

Another quick tip.

When you take a deep breath and then you breathe out, do a long sigh as this helps you get rid of more tension and stress. Do this action several times and you’ll soon start to feel the benefits.

If you would like a free complimentary consultation where I can work with you on a 1-2-1 basis please contact me. Many people suffer from what I have spoken about here and not just in the Birmingham and Walsall areas. This is a modern symptom from a modern world and our bodies cannot cope.

As I treat clients with high Stress and Anxiety levels, they soon start to realise how they can take control of their life and learn how to be calm in a high tension area, whether at work or in the home life.

I look forward to knowing how I can help you…

Helping you towards success.
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ADDICTED TO OVER THE COUNTER PAINKILLERS

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ADDICTED TO OVER THE COUNTER PAINKILLERS AND HOW ANXIETY HYPNOSIS CAN HELP.

 

Are you addicted to over the counter pain killers?

 

Am I Addicted to Pain Killers?

addiction_is_addiction_The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis in Birmingham & WalsallThe addiction may start as an innocent part of you wanting to get better following a bout of pain, such as surgery, giving birth or having an accident. This may start as prescription drugs but then you get used to the so called good (euphoric) feeling that you get, also known as a (buzz) feeling.

We are by nature an addictive being, as everything we do is repetition. As people know this, repetition will by its act bring on an addiction. This is true if the feelings we get satisfy us, such as the drugs, particularly if they are helping to control your pain.

You might recognise other addiction type behaviours in you or people around you. Theses could be an addiction to Facebook, Gaming Consoles, Constant Texting, Drinking, Sweet or Savoury Foods, Gambling, Smoking, Drugs, Workaholic, and many more…

The Painkillers and You…

Over the counter addiction pain killers can include: Co-Codamol, Ibuprofen, Paracetamol, Nurofen, and of course any drug with an Opiate content.

Once you have the relief from taking the painkillers and they have succeeded in controlling your pain, you still insist in taking them and then you begin to recognise that you have a problem. But you still insist that you don’t. This will lead to a multitude of covert behaviours.

These behaviours can take the form of taking the drugs when you know you don’t require them. You take more than the prescribed dose, by taking a higher dose of pills each time or more pills overall. Recognising that you now lie about your painkillers and you hide that fact. You go to different pharmacy’s, or when different staff are on duty, or you get others to go on your behalf or you start to steal them.

What can I do about this?

If you are at this point, then you know that you need intervention, to have drug rehabilitation for this.

You have to open up the lines of communication to immediate family, so long as you feel that the family are strong enough to help and support you.

You then need to contact your doctor or contact a drug addiction support centre.

Once you have started to readjust your outlook on how to conquer this, because your not a bad person and this isn’t something you planned. This problem started possibly as a bi product to you just wanting to stop the pain that you had.

The best way is to search on line and get the low-down on help offered near you.

What Next.

Once you have recognised that you want help then seek help via the internet, or your GP. If this is to do with pain, then one of the best ways to control your pain in to have hypnotherapy for pain control. Hypnotherapy in this area is quiet effective and of course you are going to be drug free.

Not everyone will be aware that hypnosis can offer such benefits to be pain free, via using the techniques, you can learn that hypnosis can help you manage and reduce your pain.

You may also wish to visit a hypnotherapist who deals with drug addiction as this too can be beneficial to you by helping you to be drug free from painkillers.

You can use alternative treatment to help you while coming off your drugs as this will depend on how many and how addicted you are and if you have an addictive personality.

Anxiety Hypnosis.

Anxiety Hypnosis is here to help, don’t leave it to late because you can receive pain management via hypnosis to help reduce the pain you have being going through. So long as there isn’t any medical reason as to why you shouldn’t be able to be free of your pain.

The help of relaxing the muscles around the pain area is where hypnotherapy works best. But therapy can be used in many ways to help reduce the discomfort.

When seeking treatment, make sure the therapist will access you for the likelihood that they can help with your particular pain management problem.

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis is here to help with pain problems that you may be having whether this is from a bad back or stiff neck etc… Contact me to find out if I can help, I am available in the Walsall and Birmingham areas. I will also offer referrals if this would be of help to you?

To Sum Up.

Recognise that you have a problem and family members can keep an eye out and check bins for empty packs etc…

Get yourself to the doctors and ask what the long care health plan is for you. Also gather information on the damages and side effects of what drugs you are taking and acknowledge how your present actions are effecting the family and relationships, especially of your partner…

Open up communications and confide in someone who you feel you can trust that can offer advice. This could be a best friend, your nan/granddad or anyone else you may feel that would just give you that reassurity to get you well on your way and off the painkillers .

Notice with the benefit of Painkillers that overdosing on them can have the adverse effect and make you very sick and possible death. it’s not to late to make a change today.

                    …So good luck and you’ll do it!

“Remember the bigger the problem the bigger the pill – the bigger the doctor the bigger the bill”

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis offers a range of therapies that can suit you as not everyone wants to be hypnotised..

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Panic & Anxiety of EMPTY NEST SYNDROME

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EMPTY NEST SYNDROME

Are you struggling with your eldest child leaving for university…

What is Empty Nest Syndrome?

Bags packed for university , Anxiety Hypnosis The Nexus Team can help Empty Nest Syndrome is a time when a child leaves the home to move away to university. This can be a heart wrenching time for both parents but especially for the mother. The shock of you being around your child for 18 years and now they have moved out can leave you feeling empty inside.

Although no one has died the same symptoms of grief and heartache are very much felt particularly within a loving family.

This is in every way a new chapter in life, how everyone has to adjust to the new challenges that life has brought you.

The Feeling of Grief.

There is a bag of mixed feelings surrounding the whole situation of what is happening. On one part you have to be happy that they are doing well and thriving, as well as being educated in their chosen field of knowledge. Of course with this double edged sword, you have the negative emotion that just seems to overwhelm the positives especially to begin with.

The feeling of loss and the emptiness in the house at certain times and the things you shared has this could be a time when you no longer have your child’s friends coming around either.

What Can You Do About It…

If you have experienced grief before, then you will recognise the similarity in the emotional feelings. It’s not good to hold onto the negative feelings, as indeed men (fathers) may do. Feeling like an emotional wreck right now, may feel like you’ll never get rid of this.

I think that you should give yourself permission to cry, and parents should be encouraged to express this together if their relationship can do this. This isn’t about a weakness but recognising that you are both feeling the same and this can be your strength. Although one part of the relationship may feel stronger and keep a sense of reality and calmness within the house hold.

Never feel bad about how you feel even though you think that it’s silly as this emotion needs to come out of you so that the healing can take place. It’s okay to avoid the negativity for a while as you don’t want to burst into tears while in the shops.

Your Time To Change.

You have the opportunity to rediscover yourself, but this may be hard as you have probably been at the beck and call for the family for many years. It is important that you have new challenges in your life, this will have to be your calling so to speak as everyone is different and you have to do what feels right.

You don’t have to have a a knee jerk reaction to doing whatever comes along. This could be joining a group with like minded interests. You can even start one of your own. There is an App called ‘meet-up’ as this can also be a way of you getting over your fears of either going out or being allowed to learn how to be you once more.

Anxious Times Ahead!

This can be an understatement of how you feel right now. Once you get over the initial shock and time moves on you will soon realise how time distortion kicks in and before you know it, they are on their way back home and you will be wondering why you felt the way you did.

In the meantime however, as all the new students at Birmingham University and of course the many universities around the country, students are all equally leaving grief stricken parents everywhere. Your kids are possibly feeling the same way, but they have new surrounding and new interests and certainly their new found freedom. So these kids are distracted to say the least, while you are at home crying your eyes out.

This is all natural, but this still leaves you feeling anxious because of wondering if they are okay and not getting into trouble etc…

Anxiety Hypnosis.

As I have mentioned that anxiety, fear, stress and grief play a major part in the overall well-being of you, that said if you don’t deal with this, then you too will suffer. It is documented that mothers particularly can get breast cancer and even brain legends** or scaring on the brain because of the child leaving home for the first time. Of course kids can leave home many times, if they are in a career that calls them away for months at-a-time.

You may feel like you only want to talk about how you feel and that’s okay, also you may want to try hypnosis to get a better understanding of yourself. This could be to help you find confidence to go out and face the world as a new you.

The Nexus Team can also offer EMDR (Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) ,this is a great way to help get your brain and especially your mind to cope better with the present situation. This also helps people with that grief feeling.
Anxiety Hypnosis also helps you by allowing the mind to readjust to the new immediate difficulties and help get you away from feeling like an emotional wreck. But you don’t have to feel at your worst to see me as you can have a free complimentary consultation to be accessed to see whether you would benefit from my help.

Help is Here.

If you need or require some help with either talk therapy or hypnotherapy to help you with how you are feeling right now and you live in and around the Birmingham area of Walsall etc. then contact The Nexus Team.

Give me a call to find out more, also I will help you every step of the way to help you with your recovery by helping you feel calm and confident. Helping to get you back in control, or contact me to help you with your particular situation and I will answer any questions you have.
Until then you can download my free 7 tips on how to Axe-Anxiety. Click HERE. Also get talking to family and friends to help put yourself at ease and soon everything will start to ease.

To Sum up.

Congratulate yourself for getting your child to be able to get into university and this is what you have all been working towards. Also that they are probably having a good time and this is a time when we all have mobiles and can easily stay in touch also with social media. Feel sad and cry if you need to, but don’t stay there and move forward. This was bound to happen but notice that it will become less traumatic each day and the rawness will fade. Above all don’t be to hard on yourself as you might have other children who need you attention more then ever now.

The Nexus Team Anxiety Hypnosis offers a range of therapies that can suit you as not everyone wants to be hypnotised..

Anxiety Hypnosis Helping You Towards Success.

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